One of the things I often remind my clients—especially the working moms I serve—is that growth doesn’t mean you’ll never feel overwhelmed again. It doesn’t mean you’ll never feel angry, discouraged, or disappointed. And it certainly doesn’t mean you have to handle everything with a smile and scripture ready on cue.

Motherhood is full of seasons—some sweet, some stretching, and some that feel like they might never end. From diaper blowouts to late-night homework help and transitioning to empty nest, each stage comes with its challenges and lessons. The beauty is, these seasons are temporary, but the wisdom we gain from them lasts a lifetime. As our children grow more independent, we’re invited to grow, too—learning to release old rhythms, embrace new freedoms, and rediscover the dreams God placed in our hearts.

In my two years as a Christian counselor in private practice, and three years before that as a high school counselor who happens to be a Christian, I’ve learned a perspective that has completely shaped the way I show up for my clients and walk out my calling:

Agreement and acceptance are not the same.