Motherhood is full of seasons—some sweet, some stretching, and some that feel like they might never end. From diaper blowouts to late-night homework help and transitioning to empty nest, each stage comes with its challenges and lessons. The beauty is, these seasons are temporary, but the wisdom we gain from them lasts a lifetime. As our children grow more independent, we’re invited to grow, too—learning to release old rhythms, embrace new freedoms, and rediscover the dreams God placed in our hearts.

As moms, we are so good at recognizing when our kids are changing. We adjust their routines, buy the next size up in shoes, learn their new favorite snacks, help with harder homework, and stay up praying when they’re facing challenges. We show them grace at every stage—because we understand that growth brings change.

But when it comes to our own shifts, especially in the seasons of motherhood, we don’t always offer ourselves that same grace.

Why is that?