October was a month of mixed emotions, lessons, and God’s gentle reminders. I recently saw a video by Tabitha Brown where she recalled the theme song from the old show The Facts of Life: “You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both, and there you have the facts of life.” And that’s exactly what this October has been for me — a blend of good, bad, and everything in between.

Motherhood is beautiful, but it can also feel heavy—so heavy that some moms quietly wonder, “Is it normal to not want to be a mom anymore?” The truth is, you’re not a bad mom for feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or emotionally drained. In this honest and grace-filled blog, I walk you through why these thoughts happen, what they mean, and how God meets you right in the middle of your burnout. If you’re feeling lost, weary, or questioning your capacity, this message will remind you that you’re still called, still loved, and still the perfect mom for your children.

As moms, we carry so much on our shoulders. We want the best for our children and naturally step into the role of nurturer—providing food, clothing, love, guidance, and as much quality time as possible. We want to give them the best that we can. And yet, in the middle of doing our best, we sometimes fall short.